Also he told me he wouldn't ask, or question. We don't have sex, so nothing would change there. He really doesn't want to know. I even told him about something once. I was frustrated thinking I would never be able to do this. I had gone on OKCupid and tried to find someone. I meet a couple of guys. I just didn't like any of them.
So I was sitting down and told my husband. "I can't do this, you think it is easy for me? I made an account I met some guys, it didn't work out. I can't do this" I said it like that.
He simply looked at me and told me "Don't tell me... you do whatever you want, just don't tell me." That is it.