New to same sex interactions
Hi, I've been seeing a poly man who is married for just over a month now. We are a good match in both personality and sexually. I've met his wife, and I am really attracted to her. I've had plenty of feelings for or been attracted to women in the past, but never felt safe, or that it was acceptable to act on those feelings. She has lots of experience with women, and is not keen on being someone's 'first'. I've sent her an email (don't have her phone #) telling her that I like her and that I would like to go on a date....I'm very nervously waiting for a reply.
I'm wondering if anyone can recommend good literature on bi-gay-pan sexual relationships or dating or if anyone has advice on how to proceed in same sex relations within a poly context?