husband can't sleep when boyfriend sleeps over.
When my boyfriend spends the night my husband can't sleep. He lies awake and every noise or sound makes him wonder if it's us having sex. The issue isn't that we make noise. Its that he is sooo curious. He wants to know what we are doing. It's not jealousy and its not that he isn't ok with us being together...he just wants to know. What we are doing. What it looks like. etc. Like looking at porn. He pauses the music and movies if he thinks hears something. etc. Watching sex is a kink of his...so knowing sex is going on in the next room and he can't watch drives him crazy.
*Fem in closed vee relationship with two hetero men. All new to poly.