Polyamory.com Forum  

Go Back   Polyamory.com Forum > Dating & Friendships > North America

Notices

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 11-04-2012, 03:07 AM
jj743 jj743 is offline
New Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Utah
Posts: 2
Default married couple UT looking for girlfriend

my husband and i have been married for 2 years now, and are interested in finding a female companion. we are very affectionate people, passionate and fun loving. i am bi, he is straight. please let us know if you're interested in meeting us.
Reply With Quote
  #2  
Old 11-04-2012, 04:35 AM
Emm's Avatar
Emm Emm is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Australia
Posts: 708
Default

Welcome to the board. In order to differentiate yourselves from the million and one other couples looking for the exact same thing, perhaps you could expand a little on the specifics.

Do you have an age range in mind? Do you have children? Would it be ok if she has children? Would it be ok if she's married or in another relationship? Do you like going out to clubs or do you prefer dinner and a movie? Are you looking for someone for you, someone for your husband, or someone to "share"? If the latter, what happens if one of you falls for her and the other doesn't? What happens if she falls for one of you but not the other?
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 01-07-2013, 05:43 AM
jj743 jj743 is offline
New Member
 
Join Date: Nov 2012
Location: Utah
Posts: 2
Default

Well, as far as age goes, we're looking for someone around our age, (I'm 23, he's 24), and preferably no more than 10-15 years older than us.

We don't have children yet, but we both love children, so it would be fine if she had kids. If she's married, that's fine, as long as it's fine with her spouse, too.

We aren't really the clubbing types, but we frequently go out to dinner, and we go to bars and pubs on special occasions.

We're looking for someone to share. Honestly, I don't know what would happen if one of us fell for her and the other didn't... or if she fell for one of us but not the other. If that happened, we'd work through it. I don't know if we would get jealous of each other or not. I do know that we love and understand each other, and are willing to do whatever it takes to be together. If a woman were to date us, we would feel the same about her; first, we would see where the relationship was leading, and then, we would decide whether we all wanted to be together. If that were the case, we would do everything we could to make it work out. I know neither of us would take it lightly; we've talked about it, and we know that, if nothing else, it would make a big impact on our hearts.
Reply With Quote
Reply

Tags
couple, girlfriend

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 09:37 PM.