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Old 12-27-2012, 12:42 AM
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Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post
Can I ask, how are you and CG currently getting along? Did things smooth out after those initial conversations? Any idea why she initially reacted so crazy-like? Did she think you were being too forward, or too reserved?
Much better. She apparently had me sectioned off into an off-limits part of her brain, due to the monogamy label and it threw her for a bit of a loop. Also, since I'm one of her best friends, it isn't like taking up a casual fling. Plus, the campsite rule of "leaving people better than how you found them" seems like an obligation she feels toward people new to non-monogamy.

Originally Posted by kdt26417 View Post
Keep up the good communication between you and DH, and try to increase/enhance your communication with CG as well. And about those "not yes and not no" questions, if they are still bothering you, don't hesitate to post them and I'll try to give you a definite yes or no.
It is funny. Before this, CG and I were totally clear on communication for school/work whatever. With this, it seems like we've made everything more complicated.

As to the yes/no questions...she hasn't even told me whether she thinks I'm attractive. Or whether she wants to do things with me. They are her-specific.
29, married to DH, the best guy in the world. 2 kids, dog, house with fence.
Developed a fast and accidental crush on then-best-friend, CG (cute-girl) and world fell apart after telling said girl. Came here for advice and info in case it became a thing. It didn't, but the friendship exploded. Turned world a bit upside-down, hence the moniker. ::sigh::
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