Looking for knowledgable advice
I should probably provide some background before explaining the situation. A few months ago my husband and I were talking when an ex girlfriend of his came up. I mentioned that she had proposed having a threesome. I was open to the idea at the point when she brought it up but that i wasn't sure I would be okay with it now. A couple days ago he asked me if I would consider trying with a good friend of ours that is attracted to both of us. She and I have similar concerns because we have been having family problems centered around our oldest child. The problems have become severe enough that we have discussed separating. Removed from parenting issues, we don't really have relationship problems.
I would appreciate any thoughts or words of advice from experienced polys. I know how my husband commits to relationships and if we do this it will be long term. Since this is my first post I should probably cut it off for now and save any other thoughts for later posts.