I met someone, this is new for me.
So i've written on here before that I am currently in a relationship with my partner of almost 12 years and i'm now more open to the idea of being poly.
To that end, I have started seeing another guy recently. A bit closer to my age and we have a LOT in common. He's also in a relationship with a man for almost 5 years. Both of our partners know about this and are good with it so far.
Are there any pitfalls to this type of relationship that I need to be aware of? I love my partner very much, but I also really like this new guy. I just want to make sure that I don't hurt either of them.