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12-04-2012, 01:04 PM
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"Hi, I'm looking for someone to mother me."
that was all. uhm, no, thanks.
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early forties, straight. husband: Ren. My 2 loves: Curlz and MrBrown. Non-sexual BF: Knight. FWB: BGuy. Ren's GF: Lou. C.'s GF: Molly. ****************************** There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time. Jane Austen Last edited by Cleo; 12-04-2012 at 01:10 PM. 
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#223
12-05-2012, 04:08 AM
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12-06-2012, 01:21 AM
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So, after reading all about OKC here - last night Dude and I were talking about it and what it used to make the matches, etc. So I got on last night and started to make a profile just to see how it worked. I answered about 75 questions (focusing on finding the "poly" type ones and making them mandatory etc - tips I learned here), took a few tests, and filled out some of the "drop down menu" sections. I've added absolutely NOTHING to the profile yet, no text, no pictures, nothing.
Well, I got my first message: Quote:
 Anyway... With even the small amount of info that I gave the site it did seem like it was doing a decent job finding profiles for me to look at - some interesting poly bi women not too far away that I could see myself messaging if I ever bother to finish putting the profile together.
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Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" Vee-plus with - MrS: hetero, probably mono male, my live-in husband (together for 21 years, married for 17) Dude: hetero, probably poly male, my live-in boyfriend (of 2 years; friends for longer) and MrS's best friend (for several years longer than that) VV and MsJ: bisexual women with male primaries, LDR FWBs (of 19 and 7 years) My poly blogs on this site: The Journey of JaneQSmythe The Notebook of JaneQSmythe Last edited by JaneQSmythe; 12-06-2012 at 02:51 AM.
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12-06-2012, 05:42 AM
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My very first message on OK Cupid went like this (I deleted it, apparently, so it'll have to be from memory):
Them: You look really lovely. Me: Thanks! That's really nice of you to say! Them: Well you do! Do you mind if I ask you something personal? Me: Not at all, ask away! (At this point I'm thinking it'll probably be something a little dirty/relating to casual sex, but there's no harm in letting them ask) Them: Well my friend has this website, for porn, would you like to work for him? *Jaw smacks keyboard* Not what I was expecting in my first message.
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Josie - Bisexual female living with and dating H, and dating P. H - Bisexual male - been together 2 years. P - Bisexual female - been together roughly 7 months.
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#226
12-06-2012, 07:15 AM
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=DISCLAIMER= I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."
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#227
12-06-2012, 12:30 PM
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Got another nice one today: "Wanna come to Italy? I'll show you what a really good cappuccino is!" I'm about 4 countries removed from Italy, and mention in my profile I'm only looking to get in touch with people locally.
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early forties, straight. husband: Ren. My 2 loves: Curlz and MrBrown. Non-sexual BF: Knight. FWB: BGuy. Ren's GF: Lou. C.'s GF: Molly. ****************************** There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time. Jane Austen
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#228
12-09-2012, 04:56 AM
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I got 2 messages recently.
"hey beautiful how are you? " That, from a 22 yr old in Michigan. I'm in Massachusetts. His profile said he's looking for women 18-27. I'm 57. Does he "deserve" a response? Next message: (verbatim) "What'swwhats up gorgeous ngggggWhats up gorgeous?" OK, he posted that from his phone app, but for goodness sake! Does he "deserve" a response?
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Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. ~Percy Byshe Shelley
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#229
12-09-2012, 06:38 AM
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I've gotten my share of freaks too; I got a message from a woman who, after some conversation, revealed that she was physically unable to achieve orgasm unless she was struck in the face. And I dont mean like a little slap, I mean full on closed-fist punch.
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=DISCLAIMER= I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."
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#230
12-09-2012, 09:05 PM
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Here's one I just got:
"Nice!!!! You're super Cute (: and sound super Tubular ((:" ... what the heck? Tubular? Did we go back to the 80s and I missed it? XD
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