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Old 11-29-2012, 11:26 PM
Letitbe Letitbe is offline
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Default Advice About Trust

My husband and I have talked about poly and agreed on rules. He broke a rule. How can I trust him again? We have very good communication and have talked about this issue a lot. The question I posed to him was, "You promised you would never ever do this, and I trusted you wouldn't. But, you did. How can I trust you when you say you won't do it again?" He said that was a valid concern and that we will just have to wait and see. I want to trust him, I really do...and I trust easily, which is good. But it's just, I trusted him so much and he broke that trust. But, I guess it's probably normal to be tentative to trust someone again who has broken your trust. Maybe just give it some time?
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