very new

[littleindiangirl]

I am very new here and I love the concept very much..But I am scared and unsure about how to go with it

[FragileKaos]

I am new to the concept myself. My bf is a bit more experienced but we are still both very new to how this all works for us.

[littleindiangirl]

Originally Posted by FragileKaos

I am new to the concept myself. My bf is a bit more experienced but we are still both very new to how this all works for us.

ok

[FragileKaos]

Are you in a relationship now or just looking to start?

[littleindiangirl]

Originally Posted by FragileKaos

Are you in a relationship now or just looking to start?

No..I am not in a relationship...Looking to start

[riftara]

did you have any direct questions? I would READ READ READ! I bought several books on Polyamory and devoured them. I still re-read them sometimes.

[littleindiangirl]

Originally Posted by riftara

did you have any direct questions? I would READ READ READ! I bought several books on Polyamory and devoured them. I still re-read them sometimes.

No direct questions...just confused

[CattivaGattina]

If confused reading is definitely a good place to start (threads on here, Opening Up, etc.).

Also even though you don't have direct questions about specific things if there's parts that you feel you need more clarification on even asking those to try and work through some of your confusion can help.

[abeautifulworld]

Are you wanting info on polyamory (2 females and 1 male) or polyandry (2 males and you)? What is your preference....that is a good place to start?

[CattivaGattina]

Originally Posted by abeautifulworld

Are you wanting info on polyamory (2 females and 1 male) or polyandry (2 males and you)? What is your preference....that is a good place to start?

Polyamory are any number of multiple people. Polyandry is multiple men (can be more than 2) and one female. Multiple females with one man is polygny.