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11-17-2012, 04:01 PM
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You would have to be clearer: "This is a generic NO THANKS to your generic greeting."
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#182
11-17-2012, 06:53 PM
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I have only received one well thoughout message on OK Cupid. The rest were from guys assuming that because I state I have a boyfriend and a husband and am looking for FEMALES that I want to have a gang bang or orgy. I've had several such requests in the month and a half that I've been on that site and the one guy who did send me a thoughful message was already dating my husband's ex girlfriend.
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#184
11-19-2012, 04:32 PM
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This morning, I received this message at OKC:
Hi there, He's about half my age and a 52% match with me. Apparently his Ivy League education did not do him much good.
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. Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership. Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy! For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring. Last edited by nycindie; 11-19-2012 at 04:40 PM.
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#185
11-20-2012, 08:30 AM
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here's another little gem...
"hello.i know is short message but i like to to ask you first about you like to chat with me."
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early forties, straight. husband: Ren. My 2 loves: Curlz and MrBrown. Non-sexual BF: Knight. FWB: BGuy. Ren's GF: Lou. C.'s GF: Molly. ****************************** There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time. Jane Austen
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11-21-2012, 03:33 AM
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#187
11-22-2012, 12:36 AM
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So today I got this beauty:
"hello there how are u miss"
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11-22-2012, 02:06 AM
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Oooh, I got this one this evening, from a guy whose profile pic is one of those awful, distorted looking-down-at-the-glow-of-his-monitor shots:
wow what can i say u are so beautiful Well, gee thanks for reading my profile, Rick, and coming up with such an intelligent and compelling ice-breaker. Now, what can I say? <sigh>
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. Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership. Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy! For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
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#189
11-23-2012, 02:30 PM
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Can we talk about user names? Obviously I won't specifically give examples here.. But I'm having such a hard time taking a lot of them seriously.
User names that mention certain gender specific bodyparts, Anything with something teddybear related in it. (there are a lot of those!) Guys who are obviously not born in 1969, but who have the number 69 in their user name. Names that mention certain sexual activities. The ones that end in 4you.. or 4u.. ok they don't really annoy me but somehow do display a lack of imagination. do you form an opinion based on the user name?
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early forties, straight. husband: Ren. My 2 loves: Curlz and MrBrown. Non-sexual BF: Knight. FWB: BGuy. Ren's GF: Lou. C.'s GF: Molly. ****************************** There are as many forms of love as there are moments in time. Jane Austen
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11-23-2012, 08:24 PM
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=DISCLAIMER= I am as direct as a T-Rex with 'roid rage and about as subtle. It isn't intended to cause upset, I just prefer to talk plain. There are plenty of other people here who do the nice, polite thing much better than I can. I'm what you'd call a "problem dinner guest."
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