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Old 11-13-2012, 10:49 PM
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My husband's FWB seems to feel uncomfortable about sleeping with a married man for one reason or another and told him last night she felt "naughty" for showing up at our house randomly for sex last night while I was home. (Mind you, he actually invited her over on Saturday when I wasn't, but she didn't want to come over then.) They dated some 16 years ago, but nothing ever progressed and if they were to date now, I wouldn't mind as long as she could get over her discomfort at having a conversation with me now that they're having sex. However, she isn't interested in being anything but FWB and only when it suits her it seams. His friendship never waivers though.
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Old 11-14-2012, 02:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Anek View Post
. . . any relationship will tend to start as friends, evolve into including sex and/or and evolve into including feelings maybe in reverse order.
Most of my long term relationships (including my soon-to-be-ex-husband) have started with sex and eventually evolved into friendship, intimacy, and/or committed partnership later.
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia "

An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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