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Old 11-09-2012, 06:09 AM
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yaknow, AnnabelMore, I suspect that if I was in a frozen region, you could sell me ice cubes.

I completely relate, and though I haven't done that, I could easily imagine doing so. When I figured out I was bisexual, I thought how lovely to be with a couple. I had no vocabulary for any of this, but I also had no barriers to thinking such things.

And I have had, and expect to have more, with my expanded awareness, couple-crushes. (I have a triple crush on JaneQ's gang)
Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own...
Robert A. Heinlein

Me: female, bi, (formerly hinge of a vee)
with FirstBoyFriend (FBF)(moderately long-distance)
and no longer with CurrentBoyFriend (CBF)(who now lives in a house far away-with stairs I can't climb)
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Old 11-10-2012, 03:22 AM
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Haha, thanks, NR!
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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Old 11-10-2012, 08:21 AM
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I suppose you can say I'm one of the members of an observed couple that became polyamorous through us as the original pair more or less falling in love with the close friends that supported us through our LDR...this conversation is very interesting, because I seem to be the only one among my own circle with a long term slow and steady relationship.

I've never experienced any of these observations myself and reading some of them is either very nice or makes me blush. Perhaps I will have to ask the others about some things like some of their fetishes and see how they relate to their attraction to couples.
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Old 11-12-2012, 11:36 PM
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I don't have couple-crushes in the way many folks on the thread have described. I am generally not attracted to couples -usually one person in a couple. However, the couple that I cuddled with - I think they are just the cutest together. They are so different and make it work together. I think they are the awesome-sauce.

Ok, maybe I have one couple-crush!
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Old 01-25-2015, 11:45 PM
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Oh my, this is me all over! I have been experiencing this, exactly as you have described AnnabelMore, recently. It is in fact what has made me come to question whether I might be poly after all, I think I might just be. So glad to read these replies too, feels great to know other people can relate.
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