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Old 12-19-2009, 06:04 AM
msadams msadams is offline
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Ugh.

He is unavailable to speak right now, but through texting he explained to me that he broke it off with her two days after going to LA. They are trying to be friends and make the best of their time in the meantime, so I think they are intimate, but changing the nature of the relationship.

I don't know what to say. Our communication seems to be the biggest problem.

Clearly if I had understood that earlier I would not be so confused with his intentions up to now. I was hostile and trying to limit my contact with him to not be mean, meaning that he probably felt no good opportunity to tell me that he had spoken with her in the first place. If it was brought back to a play-partner thing I think I would have wrapped/wrapping my head around it easier then him and her falling in love, then they both have to break it off amidst the heat of new relationship romance.

Everyone is suffering in this situation.

I am humbled and feel bad and like I have overstepped my boundaries and hurt people. He is monkey in the middle now between two hurt girls. She is sad and he knows I feel unwell.

Yikes. What a mess.
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