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Old 12-17-2009, 11:32 PM
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Originally Posted by glowinthedarkstars;16168/
I read somewhere online, never to "try out" being poly for someoneone if your not poly. This really through me for a loop. Here I am 100% new to the idea of polyamory, how am I expected to know what I "am"? Is it unfair that I shouldnt be able to pursue a relationship with a poly man i adore, simply because I dont know exactly how to define myself? I think so.
- Yes, I remember reading this too. Thankfully, I talked to my bf (I call him my manfriend for fun) and told him that I don't think the shape of the relationship matters... only that my core needs are met and i am satisfied.

Anyhow - the judgment didn't seem "fair" to me either.

Anyways - I'm going to go, feeling sick and faint.
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