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Old 10-02-2012, 12:40 PM
needlesslyweasel needlesslyweasel is offline
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Default Very new 'Young Poly' seeks advice

First off, hi!
Secondly, let me start off by saying that by "very new poly" i mean that I started my first ever relationship in January with my (asexual) Sweetie. In June, I told zem I was poly, and zey agreed to open the relationship up.

Now (or rather a couple of weeks ago) I met a Cute Couple my age and, um, fell pretty hard for them. However, they're probably mono, and I've no idea whether Ms. CC is bi... Additionally, I see Mr. CC more often and we are fast becoming friends, but I don't get to see Ms. CC nearly as much. I really like both of them, though! Sweetie is wonderfully supportive, but zey're also rather forward. Zey said I should just bite the bullet and ask him or both of them next time we meet. I'm not sure this is the best way to do it, though. I wouldn't really know, however, since as I mentioned Sweetie's been my first relationship...

Should I ask Mr. CC out and request he bring his lady? Do I go to her first? Wait until I can address them both? Forget about the whole thing and push down my feelings for the both of them since they're not poly-community? I really don't know where to go from here.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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