Well, let me see. I am new to the site. I have never tried anything like this before (online sites). I have been with my husband 20 years. We seperated after the 1st 5 years and I started dating my best friend from high school. I had a child with him and then my husband and I got back together. Throughout the past 10 years we have had, as a couple, sexual involvement with my bf. My husband and best friend is straight but I am sexual with the 2 of them. At one point my bf was involved in a relationship with a female and we coupled up. The 2 males never interacted but the females did with each other and the males. Since then the female of my bf left him and no longer wished to be involved. My bf has now decided to try to get back with the other female and she doesn't realise he is still involved with my husband and I. Do I cut him out and persue other options and if so, what should I do to find us another couple, another male or just another female as I enjoyed all options.