Oh, so you want two husbands? I thought you wanted a relationship with another woman and your boyfriend. Listen, polygyny (multiple wives) and polyandry (multiple husbands) aren't even something anyone can pursue legally in the West, so just make it easier on yourself and call it polyamory! That term includes spouses, gf's, bf's, and anything under the sun as long as it's loving, ethical, and honest.
Independent solo polyamorist seeking lover-friends willing to invest in friendship, companionship, and love, but without a need for partnership.
Never confuse commitment with exclusivity, love with ownership, nor sex with intimacy!
For me, it is far better to grasp the Universe as it really is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying and reassuring.
~ Carl Sagan