Hello again

[Papillon]

So, I signed up and did an intro post sometime last year but have only ever lurked on & off since. Now I'm thinking I want to start a blog in the life stories section to work through some stuff and have somewhere to spew random thoughts, so I figured I should redo the old intro thing!

Brief situational info: I'm female, 30 and married. My husband has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. My husband & I have been poly for about 2 years now. His girlfriend & my boyfriend used to be a couple but broke up last year.

I'll go into more detail (& give people names & stuff!) when I actually start the blog, but if anyone wants to know more now, just ask

[newbie1]

Hi Papillon:

Welcome Back! I look forward to reading your blog!

[Skye]

Hi there! Is the situation difficult since they are broken up? Or are they amicable?

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Sounds like an interesting situation. Welcome!

[Papillon]

It was very messy to be honest (the break up wasn't mutual - she left him), and very difficult for a long time. I think we might be seeing the light at the end of the tunnel though *fingers crossed*

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Ouch! That had to be very hard to navigate, trying to be supportive and not being stuck in the middle at the same time.

[Papillon]

Yeah, it's not been easy... The 'she left him' statement above is actually a bit of a simplification - it was her that made the decision to end it but they both played a part. I'll probably go into more detail in my blog when I get to that point of the story.

[kdt26417]

Welcome back, Papillon. It is great that you are doing a blog on your situation. Sounds like you have faced some challenges.

Regards,
Kevin T.