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Old 09-05-2012, 02:32 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is online now
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Originally Posted by Glitter View Post
So true JaneQ! I hadn't really thought about that...if I attempt to limit what "may" happen, then I can very well miss the opportunity. I think I am worried about bringing in someone else, and how it will affect Storm. But then, he could very well find another and bring her in I think I need to be open to what may happen, because you never know
Thanks for the validation - I was afraid that I got a little to into the "sauce" analogy and failed to notice that we were in the "blogs" section (I usually try not to write such lengthy posts here).

It's true, Storm may get lucky and find his AWESOME sauce on his first venture whereas you may have to wade through gallons of mediocre sauce. I think that acknowledging all of the possibilities helps you from being blindsided by outcomes that were dismissed as being unlikely...because you NEVER know.

Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (6+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic hetero girlfriend and BFF
MrClean: hetero mono male, almost lover-friend to me, FWBs to SLeW
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

My poly blogs here:
The Journey of JaneQSmythe
The Notebook of JaneQSmythe
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