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Old 09-02-2012, 05:13 PM
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Originally Posted by evanevans View Post
And the idea of "playing" like a player plays, is repulsive. I have never been that disrespectful to women.
Bolding mine. I don't know if you realise what you're doing, but you use "girls" to describe the people you want to be intimate with throughout this thread. While you make it clear that you would like to take care of them, in the process you've also implied that they're not supposed to be fully-grown and able to take care of themselves. I'll be generous and assume that's not how you meant it, but the language you choose to describe them to us has its own context.

Perhaps you should choose your words just as carefully in English as you say you have to in Spanish.

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