Is thin the only sexy?

[Tise]

For me, attraction is about the interior vs the exterior.
I worry about people who focus on the exterior.

And except for that aspect I fully agree with you Avatar

[Avatar]

I think we're pretty much on the same page, Tise. Perhaps I wasn't clear that it's the interior (the mind) that is driving the exterior (the body) that determines sexy for me.

[Tise]

Ah, well then

[InspirationFlow]

For me, I have to be turned-on at a number of intangible levels for me to be sexually turned-on. I have to really feel like pleasing her in non-sensual & non-sexual ways before we get intimate (hopeless romantic, what can I say).

Having said that, I'll take a curvaceous woman over a thin one ANY day! I'm all about being pleasing to the touch.

[Magdlyn]

Originally Posted by busbuddha

I like my women the way I like my mountain roads: curvy!

I like my women the way I like my coffee, hot and strong... with a spoon in them!

[lovefromgirl]

Originally Posted by Magdlyn

I like my women the way I like my coffee, hot and strong... with a spoon in them!

My kind of woman! [licks spoon suggestively]

[Magdlyn]

Originally Posted by lovefromgirl

My kind of woman! [licks spoon suggestively]

You say, "Do you want a cup of coffee?" and she says, "Yeah, okay." Then sex is on, yes?

...Doesn't always work, though. If the President of Burundi says, "Do you want a cup of coffee?" you're not supposed to go, "Rawr! I'm in here!"

[InspirationFlow]

Originally Posted by Magdlyn

You say, "Do you want a cup of coffee?" and she says, "Yeah, okay." Then sex is on, yes?

...Doesn't always work, though. If the President of Burundi says, "Do you want a cup of coffee?" you're not supposed to go, "Rawr! I'm in here!"

Boy, I wish someone told me that BEFORE I went to Burundi last year... :-P

[RunicWolf]

If thin is the only sexy I'm doing it wrong!

For me sexy is both a state of mind and body.

Mentally they need to be comfortable in their own skin for starters. The rest usually falls into place after that. Physically I'm more of a proportions man. As long as it all works together, thin or heavy, then I'm alright. Some people are built to carry extra weight, some are not and both look a little funny when doing what they aren't "supposed" to be doing.

[Morgan]

Thin can be sexy, but I prefer voluptuous.