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Old 08-12-2012, 11:42 AM
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As far as lube goes, am I weird that I rarely ever use it? And in the past two years, only one of my lovers has ever wanted to use lube. Most guys say "no" when I ask them. And if you put on a little too much, the condom slips off. So, I don't get the appeal. Obviously, if I were into anal, I would be using it more, but I'm not. So, my natural juiciness seems plentiful enough for fucking. Am I missing something?
I like to use it for handjobs. I usually combine oral with hjs, but about half the time, I get tired of providing enough saliva... so lube it is. My lovers love my long wet handjobs. I prefer also, giving a lubed up hj to a dry one, feels more sensuous.
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Old 08-12-2012, 08:04 PM
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I like to use it for handjobs. I usually combine oral with hjs, but about half the time, I get tired of providing enough saliva... so lube it is. My lovers love my long wet handjobs. I prefer also, giving a lubed up hj to a dry one, feels more sensuous.
That makes sense. So, if you are combining a handjob with a blowjob, then the lube had better taste good!
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Old 08-13-2012, 01:20 AM
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I recently posted about these in another thread!

Lifestyles Skyn and Avanti Bare are both polyisoprene condoms. Best. Material. Ever. Closest thing to nothing we've ever used, and I've never known anyone to have a bad reaction to them.
I currently use Skyn. Thank God for those treasures.
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Old 08-13-2012, 06:15 AM
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I currently use Skyn. Thank God for those treasures.
Right?! I plan on requesting any of my future male partners to use them.
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Old 08-25-2012, 08:26 PM
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coconut oil is awsome. hands down, up, along, in, out, the best applied lube there is. good for massage, edible, didn't know about the yeast thing but great. it is one of the most moisturising things you can put on or in your body. Mix it up with raw cacao powder and some honey for a great chololate spread that is healthy and fun. (can you tell i'm a fan?)
It can get solid if chilled. I had a jar by the bed in cabin I stayed in last winter. On morning we needed a spoon to get it out of the jar, but the initial zip of cold in sensative ares was nice surprise if you like that sort of thing.
wait, freezing cubes of it, now there's and idea...
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Old 08-28-2012, 04:26 AM
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How about washing the sheets? Does it stain?

One of my loves enjoys whipped cream, and we didn't really prep well. Had to throw out my pillows after that one. There are probably still upside down handprints coming through the paint in that apartment....
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Old 08-28-2012, 05:03 AM
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So far all the sheets seem fine.
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