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Old 08-15-2012, 09:15 PM
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If being in a secondary relationship makes you feel shitty, unloveable, and generally not as good, don't enter into a secondary relationship. (Kind of the reverse of CielduMatin's advice.) You're not doing yourself any favors nor are you doing a solid to potential secondary partners.
Yes, absolutely - totally agree.

Only do it if it's a net gain for you. Otherwise it's totally not worth it.
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