Originally Posted by ihaveasecret
My sex life with my secondaries has nothing to do with my sex life with my primary. They are all separate people, not appendages to my primary relationship and all should get the consideration each deserves.
That is it in bold.
I don't question how or why people make their agreements. But she reports they made an agreement:
Originally Posted by persephone
D promised me a while back that he wouldn't pursue more than one additional relationship at a time, and I am tempted to hold him to this.
So... he's not keeping to that and she is therefore NOT getting the consideration she was promised.
At least, that is how I see it. It's about keeping the promise and giving her consideration of his fair time with her. NOT about his penis going places.