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Old 08-02-2012, 03:45 AM
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It's all about the baby right now Even though I went and got my books for my homework and papers I spend most of my days reading about children, pregnancies and conception. As always I need as much information as possible to get my brain thinking and on track. Sward and Lin just shake their heads and listen to all the input I discover. And they are so sweet with me or with each other, it's so heartwarming and encouraging.

As I have been on the pill and before the pill I never cared about this stuff, that's why I had no idea what my natural cycle looked like 'in practice'. In a way I am discovering my body from scratch in this department. Quite interesting ^.^ If I am reading myself correctly, we have used the crucial phase just fine and will see if everything went successfully in about 2 weeks time. So excited and feeling giddy about all this new stuff.

And the greatest part of it is, that I am not alone. Sward is all in as well, I didn't expect any difficulties there, but yesterday something happened that put a big happy smile on my lips in regard to Lin. We were cuddling on the sofa (hm well, a bit more than just cuddling, but the main time was spend with that) and Lin noticed that I wasn't quite satisfied. He looked at me and suddenly asked: “Should I go and get Sward for you?” (Sward was working in the garden of my godmother who is our neighbor.) I was a bit astonished and asked why. “If I remember all that stuff you told us correctly and combining it with the way you are today, it should be just the right time to feather our nest in regard to the baby project.” He was really pleased with his thought and got up even though I wasn't sure if it was the best thing to do and interrupt Sward's day. Lin really went, found Sward and told him: “Hey man, time to make a baby, Phy is waiting for you.”

Never thought it would be like this, but I won't complain Just having a great time right now.
Facts: 30, female, bi, v-type relationship with Sward (husband, straight, mono) and Lin (boyfriend, straight, mono), poly-fi and co-primary.

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