Originally Posted by LovingRadiance
OCCASIONALLY I will have a one-on-one date with one or the other of them. But, the large majority of our social time is all together (including kids).
It definitely seems more doable when everyone can be happy having most of their time be together. Tomorrow night Ginko and I will be camping with my girlfriend, Friday night Ginko will be with J at his place while I work, and then Saturday afternoon through early Sunday I'll be joining them at his place.
So far my wife and I like having our own place, but wish our lovers lived in easy walking distance. For now we make treks together to stay at their homes and have them stay at ours. We largely only go separately if one of us isn't available.