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Old 06-21-2012, 11:28 PM
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Good for you! It sounds like you are moving forward into something wonderful. Just keep communicating, and ask questions here if you are ever at a loss about what to do, if you find yourself in some more unknown territory, lol. Oh, yeah, and don't go texting one of them when you are with the other. Most poly peeps have an agreement to only text or call for emergencies. It will make managing multiple relationships a lot easier of you're not always juggling both at the same time. From their perspectives, it will just feel more respectful to know that when they are with you, they have your full attention and are not distracted by your other partner.

PS - No one was judging you. We were only offering opinions on how things could be construed.
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An excellent blog post on hierarchy in polyamory:
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