Originally Posted by IrisAwakened
think that is my major reason for staying married. I relish the thought of a trial separation, but I understand that there is much more thought to go into something like that, much more talking that needs to happen between my husband and me.
I am going to talk to him tonight, which is sometimes like pulling teeth. He used to open up to me about everything, but since poly he is shut so tight, he admits that he doesn't even know what he feels half the time. Larger issues than sex drive, right? I think I have caught it before it became hopeless, but there is still a long road until I will know anything.
I never thought it would come to this point.
Good Luck IrisA!
It's been said on here plenty, poly won't fix existing relationship issues.
Whatever you decide to do, it's good that you are giving it a fighting chance, opening your mind and heart to salvaging your marriage first.
Best of luck and lots of love to you and your family.