I agree with km34 on ur current situation Corey. It sounds like ur being used for room and board. Keeping u a secret, disrespects u, won't listen....sorry man but if I were u she would be out and I'm a nice guy too but there has to be a limit. What ever u both decide to do, I hope it works out for the best.
"If u always put limits on every thing u do, physical or any thing else, it will spread into ur work and into ur life. There r no limits there r only plateaus, and you must not stay there you must go beyond them."