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Old 04-23-2012, 06:31 AM
lilsweetie lilsweetie is offline
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Hi I'm new to poly. I've been with my bf for 8 yrs and he told me bout this site. I'm a very scared that if we let a female come into our relatioship that he will leave me for her. I've always been with one person nothing like this. But I am very attracted to females. He told me that the female will only be for me and just for him to cuddle with. What do I do? Can we make rules? Y do I feel like I'm being shared? Please help me.
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:54 PM
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lilsweetie, first welcome to the forum.

The concerns that you have are very typical of those that are facing polyamory for the first time by having a partner that would like it. there are plenty of folks around here that have been through these experiences.

however, you have posted this in the "Dating and Friendships" section, which is usually for folks looking for others, and not really to get into a discussion or ask questions - maybe you could ask your question in an introductory thread in the Introductions area - I think you will get more answers there.

Hope this helps!

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Old 04-27-2012, 03:46 AM
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Have you thought about another boyfriend?
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