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Old 04-18-2012, 12:30 AM
Mudita Mudita is offline
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Default When and how do you tell them?

This is from the thread "Is it actually possible to pickup mono girls off the street without being creepy?"

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Originally Posted by AutumnalTone View Post
Approaching a potential partner is essentially the same, whether you're poly or mono.
When it's time to discuss the possibility of dating "seriously"--which in mono circles would involve exclusivity--is when these things get negotiated.
So this gets me wondering.

When you date or sleep with someone, at what point do you folks ask if they are seeing someone else?

How do you ask?
- are you seeing other people?
or
- is there a SO in your life?

How much of the onus is on the person in the relationship to volunteer the info, and how much is on the other person to ask?
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