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Old 04-16-2012, 11:15 PM
CranberryStardust CranberryStardust is offline
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Default how do I make it happen? he's so mono...

So I haven't posted in a while, but I need advice!

I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. Things are going well, sex is great, I love him. However...my bisexual urges seem to be getting stronger. I have been with girls and even couples in the past, when I was single, but I have never explored those things while or within a relationship. Honestly, I haven't had a lot of serious relationships

I guess I am used to guys who love the idea of their girl with another woman. My boyfriend seems at best disinterested. He says he doesn't like the idea of sharing me, which makes sense. I think he equates my desire to be with a woman with a desire to be unfaithful, but I have no intentions or want to be with another guy. Ideally, he would be involved. The idea of him helping me and participating in that scenario is incredibly hot to me. I don't want to leave him out or find something elsewhere. I just really feel like I want to act on my lesbian urges.

He is a very monogamous person. Is there any hope? How do I start a conversation? How can I make him see that it can be fun and sexy and non-threatening?
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