Originally Posted by NovemberRain
Hiya Maskofdj, welcome to polyamory.com
No need to be sorry. I'm not in your situation, so I'm afraid I don't have much 'pointers' to offer. Except to read a lot of what's already written in this forum.
I understand you're not feeling very accepted; I invite you to understand that the folks responding have heard your exact questions many hundreds of times already. Lots of them have been in your situation, either as the couple or the girl being searched for. Because they've been there, they know the hardships you face. They're trying to show you. If they had ways to get beyond it, believe me, they would have done it and they'd be all about sharing.
What they've done is walked through it; or, many here have held the hands and dried the tears of those who have walked through it.
Thank you and like we said I type fast so instead of saying we I type I
Like that doesn't make a unicorn hunter
Just new and getting our feet wet