Dating and money
My wife and I are somewhat new to Poly. We're a few months in, and things have been pretty good so far... though not without their difficulties.
She' has a boyfriend that she's been with for the last few months. I only recently started dating another woman, and it raised an interesting question.
Money's tight, and when they go out, my wife's BF pays for their dates. So, that's worked out pretty well.
However, now that I'm dating I feel like I should pay for dates with my girlfriend. I'm not much of a traditionalist, but this is a hard expectation to break. We don't have a lot of money for me to be spending. How have some of you handled similar situations?