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Old 03-28-2012, 09:27 PM
mostlyclueless mostlyclueless is offline
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Default Do you cycle in and out of feeling more or less desire for new partners?

I have absolutely no desire for any other partners right now. I know in every long-term relationship I have ever been in, it was just a matter of time until I did, and because of that and a variety of other reasons, poly seemed like the right way to go.

I feel like it would make a lot of things in my primary relationship better if I could just get there. It feels so ironic to me that my desire for other partners was always a problem in all my mono relationships, and now it's not happening.

I would be interested to hear other people's experiences -- if you pretty much always feel ready to take on someone new should they come along, or if most of the time you like things how they are, however they are?
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