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Old 03-28-2012, 10:52 AM
Spyke26 Spyke26 is offline
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Default Not sure how to feel

Greetings everyone,

Gosh where do I begin. I am a straight mono male in a relationship with a bi poly female for about a month now. When her and I had started talking she mentioned that she was poly and bisexual and i hadnt paid any mind to the poly part. well a few days ago she said since i was comfortable with her being bi if i would be willing to share her with another girl who she used to be in a relationship with last summer. She said she would understand if i couldnt but also made the comment that she didnt know if she could be ok with the idea of sharing me with another girl. I told her that i would have to sleep on it and the next day i had told her id be willing to give it a try. She said she couldnt see herself leaving hers and my relationship for the girl she also wants to be with and i shouldnt be worried. But lets be frank, i cant help being a little worried even though i shouldnt be. Im not jealous or envious of this girl she wants to see. Well monday night she said she got a date with her girl friend and that she was staying the night monday night and tuesday night. Im ok with it and then again im concerned. She has been responding to my txts so she isnt ignoring me but she is also telling me certain things going on with her and her girl friend that make me feel as though im not gonna be adequate enough for her. She made the Comment that shes loves me very much and misses me and that having a female partner and a male partner make her feel complete.. Can anyone help me here.. I really love my girlfriend and dont want my feelings of uncertainty to be the end of something that i could see blooming.
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