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Old 12-05-2011, 09:36 PM
PolyInterest PolyInterest is offline
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Default Hello, from San Luis Obispo County, CA!

Single female, new to the forum. I've long been interested in having a monogamous poly relationship with two men. Not sure how common that is, or how difficult it is to find, but that is what I'm looking for.
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Old 12-13-2011, 02:25 AM
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Default Hello from SLO County

I've lived in SLO, Morro Bay, and Los Osos. I just returned to the county and find myself in Paso.

I'm not volunteering for what you are looking for, but I am nearby.
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Old 12-14-2011, 02:00 AM
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Hello to you both, I live in SLO county as well :-)
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Old 12-14-2011, 03:06 AM
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Hello JnR! Might I suggest coffee or perhaps wine tasting? I'm no wine expert, but I've started to enjoy the experience of heading out to the country and enjoying the ambiance of the Vineyards and tasting rooms. I've almost always met interesting people and learned something new. Drop me a note.
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Old 12-15-2011, 02:36 AM
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... I've long been interested in having a monogamous poly relationship with two men. ...
You're certainly *not* looking for a monogamous relationship if you want to be involved with two men at the same time--the latter precludes the former.

I suspect you mean that you're interested in a fidelitous relationship with two men.

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When speaking of various forms of non-monogamy...it ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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Old 03-20-2012, 04:36 AM
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You're certainly *not* looking for a monogamous relationship if you want to be involved with two men at the same time--the latter precludes the former.

I suspect you mean that you're interested in a fidelitous relationship with two men.

Welcome aboard.
Thanks! I couldn't think of a word to accurately describe what I was looking for.
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Old 03-20-2012, 04:45 AM
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I've lived in SLO, Morro Bay, and Los Osos. I just returned to the county and find myself in Paso.

I'm not volunteering for what you are looking for, but I am nearby.
Hello ZenTantric,

I don't get on much, but wanted to say "Hello" to you, as well as to JnR!
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Old 03-20-2012, 05:16 AM
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Thanks! I couldn't think of a word to accurately describe what I was looking for.

Hang out here awhile, you'll learn LOTSA new words.

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