My husband and I have been open for nearly a year and a half. He's had two girlfriends in that time, and both of those relationships basically fell apart because of my jealousy and possessiveness.
I currently have a boyfriend, who is also in a poly marriage, and I have noticed that I am starting to feel those same emotions with him. And I really don't like that.
I don't want to be the reason anyone is unhappy, especially my partners.
My question is this: How does one conquer jealousy? Or, at the very least, how does one get it under control?