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Old 02-27-2012, 01:30 AM
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thankyou everyone, we've talked about this and I think we're back on the right track. I think more than anything it was just a misunderstanding. She is feeling more secure, and I am feeling better about this situation. I went out last night with a friend (i didn't do anything sexual, but that's beside the point), and she was much calmer and relaxed about it. I'm proud of her, and I know we're back on track to being openly loving.
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Old 02-27-2012, 01:55 AM
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My husband and I started out this way...sort of. He told me a couple of times he would be ok if i slept with other girls but I didn't want to have a one sided poly relationship because I wasn't ready for him to sleep with someone else. It took about a year for me to wrap my head around this idea.
I would say both of you should maybe sit and talk this out, at length before either of you act on another relationship. That's what we did and by the time we ended up acting on our poly desires we were able to stay strong even through a lot of issues with girlfriends...
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