Lost and need help.

[ThatGirlInGray]

I second everything that's been said so far. I'm so sorry his head is that far up his ass and that you're having to deal with this PLUS a newborn.

I'd vote a resounding YES on therapy. Your ob/gyn should be able to refer you. You don't even have to talk about poly at first. Bottom line is your husband is spending time with someone else against your wishes and abandoning you and the baby. Whether he wants to call it poly or not, and whether he's sleeping with her or not, it's CHEATING. He's CHEATING on the NEW MOTHER OF HIS CHILD. That is beyond immature. It's despicable.

*hugs* I don't know if you've said where you live, but I hope you have access to the resources you need. I'm glad your mom is able to be there to help.