Ideals or Relationships..which comes first?

[ourquad]

Originally Posted by MonoVCPHG

I'm starting to sense a bigger trend that people find connections and then, if needed, the labels follow for the sake of cummunication. I think people run into problems by picking a label and trying to meet the "criteria" it has.

I guess that could be said for me. I don't particularly like labels but some are necessary to communicate your feelings and thoughts with others.

My relationships are by far more important than any ideal I have about being poly.

[redsirenn]

Ceoli -
Exactly what I envision in my relationships too. well put.