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Old 01-29-2012, 08:49 AM
bassman bassman is offline
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Had a 2 year relationship with a women about 18 years my senior. She was 55, I was 37! Oh yum!

Reasons were, yes, I suppose the confidence. I also had a lot of freedom and didnt have to explain where I was all the time. and then I found she stretched my mind on many things, and had a lot of life experience advice to give.
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Old 02-11-2012, 03:22 AM
wonderfulworld wonderfulworld is offline
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I love to hear that there are men who love older women for more than money and taking them out (their money etc.). I have never met anyone who was interested in older women. But I saw a younger man at a mall center who was with a woman (old!) at a bench sitting and listening very attentively. I just got jealous! I hope when I am 100 or older (yes I plan on this) that a younger guy sits next to ME and flirts with me or/and listens with such interest as this man did. I love bald man and looked at him (much) because he looked a little like my guy-friend. But this man did not give ME a glimpse! He was totally fixated on this woman! I found myself wondering - if he was really interested in her (NICE) or if he would be after her money...? I also considered if he was her son, or similar, but it looked like he was interested in HER as a woman/man. I am 51 and I can say, now life is just better as it was. I look better, feel better, have more freedom and so on. It is wonderful to hear that there are younger men "out there" who are interested in older women and how you guys (at least some people in society) think about it.

I hope I did not "violate" any forum rules with those words... We are all free born!
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Old 02-22-2012, 07:27 PM
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My ex-husband was older by 4 years, my current husband is a tad younger (only 3 years) so that doesn't really count. But my boyfriend on the other hand, is 9 years my junior.

Age isn't a huge deal to him but like a lot of guys, he'll not turn away a pretty 25 year old, lol. I'm pretty sure he wasn't looking specifically for anyone older, and I wasn't looking for anyone younger, we just clicked. To see us side by side, I don't think you'd guess the age gap at all...but it's there. I must say though...I'll be turning 40 this coming fall and I'm not thrilled about it. He's still be only 30...and being in a different decade than him (and hubby), now that'll feel kind of weird :P
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