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Old 02-17-2012, 10:00 PM
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This has been the crappiest month EVER.

Necrotizing pancreatitis is the nastiest, most horrific disease EVER.

I would rather go through a family member having a heart attack or cancer (and yes, I've gone through both) than this.

Being told that my husband has a 5% chance of survival if they don't cut him open and another 1-2% chance if they do.... worst moment of my life.

A month later, he's talking, he's starting physio, he's on the road to recovery. Now I get to fall apart... not by choice, but hey.. its the way my physiology works.

I am taking a day to *me* today and am feeling incredibly guilty for doing so. It fucking sucks.

Only good note is that I have a doctor who is amazing, and short term disability and/or EI medical is almost guaranteed - just have to wait for it.

I'm so tired.
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Old 02-17-2012, 10:57 PM
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In a good mood. Going downtown with Lively tonight to have dinner and then see a midnight movie - can't wait.
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Old 02-17-2012, 11:12 PM
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A month later, he's talking, he's starting physio, he's on the road to recovery.
Seems as if our positive thoughts reached him, I hope he continues to get better as soon as possible. Congratulations on getting through this horrific phase in your lifes.

Fall apart as much as you need to and remember that you have every right to do so. No one can be perfect and strong all the time, you need to be human and week as well to stay sane. Wishing you the best possible to come out of this.
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Old 02-18-2012, 03:47 PM
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Doing pretty good today. Got a new car yesterday and reconciled with a friend who we had become estranged from.
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Old 02-18-2012, 04:34 PM
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I'm going to visit my family for the week today.
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Old 02-18-2012, 07:38 PM
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I'm going to visit my family for the week today.
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Old 02-20-2012, 01:53 PM
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This coming weekend, I'm attending my boyfriend's wedding to one of his long time mates. I'm really happy for them, but kinda sad at the same time...
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Old 02-20-2012, 05:31 PM
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Runic Wolf has a job interview today. I'm hopeful and excited for him.
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Old 02-22-2012, 03:26 AM
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So, today has been made of awesome. After a restful night's sleep I called the VA and finally got an appointment, for tomorrow, to get my ear/jaw/something looked at and taken care of, I got the third part of my job interview process done this morning, BrigidsDaughter got her car back from the shop and it's running better then ever, we are getting our TV finally fixed tomorrow, I have all but set final details for a date, and I got notice that a package I pre-ordered and paid for has shipped well before it was originally going to ship.

So, yea, it feels good to have shit coming together after the near disaster things where. I'd been asking the universe for a break and it looks like it's here.
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Old 02-22-2012, 04:01 AM
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I'm doing great! I found out today that I get to go see Alestorm in April!
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