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Old 02-07-2012, 10:50 PM
nsfmf nsfmf is offline
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Hi and thanks for reading!

I'm very new to the Poly world! I'm in a new relationship with an already married couple.

I'm the new woman in their life

Coming into the relationship as the out sider if kind of akward. We all care for each other very much already. I guess what I'm looking for on here is just to talk with others in similar situations.

I feel very welcome going into their home. I don't feel out of place when I'm with her or with him.

Just so new. Just want to talk about it I guess
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Old 02-08-2012, 02:10 AM
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Welcome! Are there any issues? Look for tags on triads and unicorns.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley

Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
also loving Punk (42, M) since Oct 2015 (he has recently downgraded us to friends)
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years
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Old 02-08-2012, 07:44 AM
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Hey there! This may be a useful resource for you: http://www.morethantwo.com/coupledating.html
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.
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Old 02-09-2012, 03:07 AM
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Thank you for that link! It really did answer a lot of my quetions and covered some of the concerns I had!
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Old 02-10-2012, 12:36 PM
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So what are some of your other concerns that were not answered?
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Old 02-10-2012, 09:35 PM
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Mostly just concered with being the newbie in the relationship.

How it may be awkward being with just him or just her. I dont want jealousy on either part. They both say they are ok with it, its just all new to me.

Both have kids involved. I have 3, they have 3. Eventually we all want to live together as a Family, how will it affect the kids.

Just things like that.
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Old 02-11-2012, 06:11 AM
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well, glad we were all so helpful, lol.

Good luck.
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