I stumbled across this board and thought I would jump in and say hi.
I have been married for 12 years. About five or six years ago, we fell into the swinging community. While we made some great friends, it wasn't a good fit for us. We left our relationship open, though, and, over the years, our relationship has morphed into this incredible hodge podge of non-monogamy. My husband is C, and he is not only my husband, but my best friend. We are in a Vee type relationship, I suppose. C is the hinge and J is his girlfriend. They are poly-fidelitous. J does not live with us, though she does spend every other weekend with us. She and I are good friends, and her kids and our kids think of each other as cousins. I am not looking for a secondary relationship, though I have had a few casual ones in the past.
So, that's me in a nutshell.
I look forward to getting to know the people on this site.