And I am off and running, any advice for someone new to this?
I had posted a little while ago I had feelings for a particular guy who is poly and already in a few very serious relationships. We talked a lot and the end result is, he is making me a part of his life but there are just only so many hours in a day so I do not see tons of him. He is great with keeping in contact with me though. Anyways it just happened to work out that I met someone new and it was one of those cases where you meet someone and things just kind of got rather serious very quickly. He is fully aware of the situation with the first guy, and it totally fine with it, no issues. However in the course of a couple weeks I went from slightly entertaining the idea of poly to actually doing it.
I am sure I am going to end up making some mistakes along the way but I am hoping for maybe get some advice to keep from doing anything that would hurt either of these great guys. I see a lot of advice about people who are opening up existing relationships but these are both open from the get go. It is a little scary that they are both new relationships at the same time. I am trying to be as transparent about everything as possible with everyone. Just sort of hoping someone will have some advice on common mistakes. This happened pretty fast for me.