Yeah, well it isn't working for all of you if only two our of three agree on something. That's not an agreement, that's a dictatorship. I don't know why you think you need therapy in all this, as you are being quite reasonable, while they are not listening to you and dismissing your needs. Yes, poly is talk-talk-talk, what's wrong with that? Why stew in this bullshit and feel like you have to put up with they want while they don't pay attention to what you want? Yes, by all means, speak up. If it didn't really bother you, you wouldn't have posted here about it.
The world opens up... when you do.
Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me. ~Bryan Ferry
"Love is that condition in which another person's happiness is essential to your own." ~Robert Heinlein