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Old 01-17-2012, 06:07 PM
OpenandCountry OpenandCountry is offline
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....not sure. Had a talk with my mom about my boyfriend. She asked some very provocative questions.
Is what you're getting out of this worth the cost?
Are you attached to this person? Where do you see your relationship in 1, 3, 5 years? Does this relationship have room to grow?
Will this negatively effect your career if it comes out?
Will (your husband, whom she loves like a son) be okay with sharing you if this person is in your life that long?
Then she started referring to my boyfriend as my mistress, which was odd.

She said she wants me to be happy, and will love me no matter what. She says she is okay with meeting my bf, but doesn't really want him at the house because my younger siblings wouldn't understand, which I get.

Overall, I just felt really depressed when I got home. My husband helped, but the sentiment is still "I made my bed, I'll lie in it"
Bisexual, Hinge of a Vee with a mono boyfriend and poly husband.
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