Polyamory.com Forum  

Go Back   Polyamory.com Forum > Polyamory > Poly Relationships Corner

Notices

 
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Prev Previous Post   Next Post Next
  #11  
Old 12-28-2011, 05:30 PM
PolyAus PolyAus is offline
Member
 
Join Date: Oct 2011
Posts: 7
Default

Thanks for the replies.

I never really wanted to be besties with Anne - far from it actually - I just want us to be able to be polite in each other's company, maybe all be able to attend the same event if we all wanted to go without it being uncomfortable, and communicate when we need to. Maybe I am underestimating how hard I'm trying and I'm being overbearing, but I don't interact with her online or ask her to spend time with me one-on-one, only go over when Bob asks and has checked with her first which isn't very often, and really all I would hope for is that she take a few minutes to say hi when I'm there, and use basic manners when interacting with me.

Why is this such a big deal to me? Having no hope for more life entanglement with Bob in the future is a major problem, so if me and Anne can't work something out in the future where I'm not the one making all the effort then I don't really know how me and Bob will pan out. I'm not okay with seeing him only twice a week for the rest of my life, put it that way.
Reply With Quote
 

Tags
cheating, hate metamour, husband, living situations, living together, metamour, metamour concerns, metamours, poly v

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT. The time now is 06:59 PM.